So of course I gave up Facebook.
And as I expected, that has given me an amazing, embarrassing quantity of time to do something else. However, since I didn't resolve to detach my phone from my hand, I've instead been reading blogs. Yes, I always read blogs, but in the past two weeks I've been devouring them. They've all been swallowed and my Feedly is almost empty (it was last night. just went to look at it and there are 54 posts there. oops. now I have to resist doing that instead of this).
This is what I've learned: other people are writing great things. If I ever want to be one of them, I need to actually write! So here's a story about doings around here yesterday.
Koji loves his Nintendo 3DS. The day before yesterday, he started talking about earning money to buy a new game. In the past, we've tried allowing him boost to his allowance (which is 1000 yen--around $10--per month) by doing extra chores. But results have been mixed. Mostly he chooses things I think he should do for free as part of the family, and then does them hastily and poorly. And then, because I agreed in advance to do so, I have to pay him. Not a recipe for happiness and satisfaction.
So this time, I proposed that he work for an hourly wage of 400 yen per hour. He was initially horrified at the thought of working for a whole hour. I helpfully pointed out that he's 10 years old, and adults twice his age and beyond make only a little more than twice that at part time jobs in the area (for example, the nearby grocery store, Yamazaki has posted Help Wanted signs offering 850/hour). A night of sleeping on that logic, and perhaps a miracle from God later, and he was sold.
Yesterday morning he cleaned the floor and took out the trash--20 minutes. After school, he rushed home, did his homework, and started working.
My son did housework for two hours and 10 minutes.
He washed dishes. He folded laundry. He cleaned the shower/bath (that took awhile.....). He cleaned the windows and the mirrors. He chopped carrots. And so on. He could have done more, but I was so flabbergasted, I couldn't think of the next job quickly enough!
Did I mention that he did all of the above with an excellent attitude for the duration?! Truly, all things are possible.
And now, on to the things I've enjoyed online lately:
“If only we’d stop trying to be happy we could have a pretty good time.” ~ Edith Wharton